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    <title>Happy Zeroth birthday Max Holgate!</title>
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    <published>2012-07-06T22:50:00Z</published>
    <updated>2012-07-09T18:31:19Z</updated>

    <summary>My baby son Max was born today, July 6th 2012, at 4.51pm. He weighed 8lb 1oz and both he and his wonderful mother are doing fine....</summary>
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        <name>Len</name>
        
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        <![CDATA[My baby son <a href="http://www.maxholgate.com">Max</a> was born today, July 6th 2012, at 4.51pm. He weighed 8lb 1oz and both he and his wonderful mother are doing fine. ]]>
        
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<entry>
    <title>Happy Zeroth birthday Scott Holgate!</title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.lenholgate.com/blog/2010/01/happy-zeroth-birthday-scott-holgate.html" />
    <id>tag:www.socketframework.com,2010:/blog//12.944</id>

    <published>2010-01-25T07:00:00Z</published>
    <updated>2011-01-02T12:21:14Z</updated>

    <summary>My baby son Scott was born today, Jan 25th 2010, at 1.58am. He weighed 6lb 15oz and both he and his wonderful mother are doing fine....</summary>
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        <name>Len</name>
        
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        <![CDATA[My baby son <a href="http://www.scottholgate.com/">Scott</a> was born today, Jan 25th 2010, at 1.58am. He weighed 6lb 15oz and both he and his wonderful mother are doing fine.]]>
        
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<entry>
    <title>Back from Skiing...</title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.lenholgate.com/blog/2008/03/back-from-skiing.html" />
    <id>tag:www.socketframework.com,2008:/blog//12.820</id>

    <published>2008-03-18T09:12:39Z</published>
    <updated>2010-12-28T13:59:49Z</updated>

    <summary>I&apos;ve been away skiing for a couple of weeks in Davos and St. Anton, the snow was pretty good in both places but Davos won out as a more civilised skiing experience. St. Anton was just too busy for me,...</summary>
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        <name>Len</name>
        
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        I&apos;ve been away skiing for a couple of weeks in Davos and St. Anton, the snow was pretty good in both places but Davos won out as a more civilised skiing experience. St. Anton was just too busy for me, I&apos;m getting fussy in my old age ;). The situation in St. Anton wasn&apos;t helped by the fact that when we arrived the off-piste was all a bit crunchy and skied out which meant that most people stayed on piste and then we had a big three day storm that kept the high lifts and links shut and meant that several of the accessible off piste routes were unadvisable due to avalanche risk. Of course all of that cleared up on the morning that we left and our train pulled out of the station on a wonderfully crisp blue sky day.
        
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<entry>
    <title>Another useful piece for anyone in a relationship with a nerd...</title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.lenholgate.com/blog/2007/11/another-useful-piece-for-anyone-in-a-relationship-with-a-nerd.html" />
    <id>tag:www.socketframework.com,2007:/blog//12.787</id>

    <published>2007-11-12T09:45:25Z</published>
    <updated>2010-12-27T22:03:15Z</updated>

    <summary>Once again Rands hits the nail on the head with The Nerd Handbook......</summary>
    <author>
        <name>Len</name>
        
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        <![CDATA[<a href="http://www.lenholgate.com/archives/000659.html">Once again</a> Rands hits the nail on the head with <a href="http://www.randsinrepose.com/archives/2007/11/11/the_nerd_handbook.html">The Nerd Handbook</a>...]]>
        
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<entry>
    <title>Update</title>
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    <id>tag:www.socketframework.com,2006:/blog//12.721</id>

    <published>2006-12-25T18:09:49Z</published>
    <updated>2010-12-27T12:38:40Z</updated>

    <summary>I&apos;m back in the UK briefly on 28th and 29th December and then I&apos;m off to Davos for new year... I&apos;m back in the UK in early Feb and then ski guiding for the Ski Club of Great Britain in...</summary>
    <author>
        <name>Len</name>
        
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        <![CDATA[I'm back in the UK briefly on 28th and 29th December and then I'm off to <a href="http://www.megeveski.com/archives/000438.html">Davos for new year</a>... I'm back in the UK in early Feb and then ski guiding for the Ski Club of Great Britain in Jackson Hole for 3 weeks from 17th Feb...]]>
        
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<entry>
    <title>Meanwhile...</title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.lenholgate.com/blog/2006/11/meanwhile.html" />
    <id>tag:www.socketframework.com,2006:/blog//12.720</id>

    <published>2006-11-30T20:14:53Z</published>
    <updated>2010-12-27T12:38:16Z</updated>

    <summary>Meanwhile, I&apos;ll continue doing slalom training in Tignes in the French alps... Beware, those poles are addictive!...</summary>
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        <name>Len</name>
        
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        <![CDATA[<p>Meanwhile, I'll continue doing <a href="http://www.megeveski.com/archives/cat_r21_race_training.html">slalom training in Tignes in the French alps</a>...</p>

Beware, those poles are addictive!]]>
        
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<entry>
    <title>I passed!</title>
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    <id>tag:www.socketframework.com,2006:/blog//12.715</id>

    <published>2006-09-26T18:06:58Z</published>
    <updated>2010-12-27T11:59:59Z</updated>

    <summary>Well, today I discovered that I had passed the BASI Ski Instructor course that I&apos;ve been taking in Argentina, so I&apos;m now a Ski Instructor... We fly back from Bariloche to Buenos Aires on Friday and then onwards to the...</summary>
    <author>
        <name>Len</name>
        
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        <![CDATA[<p>Well, today I discovered that I had passed the BASI Ski Instructor course that <a href="http://www.megeveski.com/archives/cat_basi_instructor_training.html">I've been taking in Argentina</a>, so I'm now a Ski Instructor...</p>

We fly back from Bariloche to Buenos Aires on Friday and then onwards to the UK on Saturday; the trip has been great, but i'm looking forward to getting home and getting a decent curry and a bacon sandwich...]]>
        
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    <title>Argentina and beyond...</title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.lenholgate.com/blog/2006/06/argentina-and-beyond.html" />
    <id>tag:www.socketframework.com,2006:/blog//12.995</id>

    <published>2006-06-27T10:35:44Z</published>
    <updated>2010-12-22T09:39:58Z</updated>

    <summary>Normal service will resume at some point, but right now I have some skiing to do... I&apos;m off to Argentina at the end of July for 2 months ski instructor training, then, when I get back I&apos;m going to head...</summary>
    <author>
        <name>Len</name>
        
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        <![CDATA[Normal service <i>will</i> resume at some point, but right now <a href="http://www.megeveski.com/archives/000294.html">I have some skiing to do</a>... I'm off to Argentina at the end of July for 2 months ski instructor training, then, when I get back I'm going to head off to Tignes to do some race training with R21, then on to the Ski Club reps course in December and then, who knows...]]>
        
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<entry>
    <title>Ok, now I&apos;m confused</title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.lenholgate.com/blog/2006/04/ok-now-im-confused.html" />
    <id>tag:www.socketframework.com,2006:/blog//12.695</id>

    <published>2006-04-01T18:11:36Z</published>
    <updated>2010-12-27T08:11:10Z</updated>

    <summary>I&apos;ve been looking at my web server log analysis and I have three peaks in my graphs for the last few days. The first big peak, 6,000 hits per hour, was on 28th March when my relationship break-up post was...</summary>
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        <name>Len</name>
        
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        <![CDATA[<p>I've been looking at my web server log analysis and I have three peaks in my graphs for the last few days. </p>

<p>The first big peak, 6,000 hits per hour, was on 28th March when my <a href="http://www.lenholgate.com/archives/000638.html">relationship break-up post</a> was on the front page of <a href="http://www.digg.com/links/Geek_uses_packet_sniffer_to_catch_his_girlfriend_cheating">digg</a>. The traffic then tailed off and dropped down to around 130 hits an hour on the 30th. </p>

<p>The second peak, of 500 hits per hour, occurred when a link was posted on <a href="http://www.theregister.co.uk/2006/03/30/ethereal_relationship_break-up/">The Register</a> and stayed on its front page for a while. This traffic then tailed off on the 31st and dropped to around 90 hits per hour....</p>

<p>Then sometime on the 31st the traffic spiked again, rising back up to over 200 hits per hour, and the referrer graph started to show "direct hits", i.e. no referrer as the most common referrer. Prior to that the referrer graph was clearly showing the digg.com and The Register hits.</p>

This third wave confuses me. It's slowing down now but the referrer graph still shows that almost half of all hits are "direct hits". So, where are you all coming from and why is this blog still of interest?]]>
        
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<entry>
    <title>It must be a slow news day when...</title>
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    <id>tag:www.socketframework.com,2006:/blog//12.694</id>

    <published>2006-03-29T17:51:58Z</published>
    <updated>2010-12-27T08:10:37Z</updated>

    <summary>My relationship break-up posting gets linked to from CNN.com... And, of course, they put their own spin on it... However, as I mentioned in a reply to one of the comments on the original posting... &quot;Actually, I wrote a much...</summary>
    <author>
        <name>Len</name>
        
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        <![CDATA[<p>My <a href="http://www.lenholgate.com/archives/000638.html">relationship break-up posting</a> gets <a href="http://money.cnn.com/2006/03/28/technology/business2_browser0328/index.htm">linked to from CNN.com</a>...</p>

<p>And, of course, they put their own spin on it... However, as I mentioned in a reply to one of the comments on the original posting...</p>

<p><i>"Actually, I wrote a much longer piece with much more detail and decided that I didn't need to publish it. I just needed to write it. To get it out of my head, in much the same way that I wrote about my <a href="http://www.lenholgate.com/archives/000410.html">sister's tsunami experience</a>. However I did feel the need to say something on my blog as the split has and will affect what I do and that needed context. So I took out the personal stuff and left the techie stuff as this is a techie blog. </i></p>

<i>Given that my blog usually gets around 300 visits a day and given that up until some bright spark thought that this posting was amusing enough to go on digg.com I'd had just a couple of sympathetic comments I figured the balance was about right. Having 50,000+ geeks using the 439 word entry to analyse and speculate on our lives and priorities wasn't really something that I expected."</i>]]>
        
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<entry>
    <title>Table for one</title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.lenholgate.com/blog/2006/03/table-for-one.html" />
    <id>tag:www.socketframework.com,2006:/blog//12.691</id>

    <published>2006-03-22T08:26:16Z</published>
    <updated>2010-12-26T19:09:37Z</updated>

    <summary> Sorry about the lack of technical postings for a while, this last month or so has been rather hard for me. On 13th February I became suspicious that something wasn&apos;t quite right with Michelle, my partner for the last...</summary>
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        <name>Len</name>
        
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        <![CDATA[<p><iframe align="right" src="http://rcm-uk.amazon.co.uk/e/cm?t=ramcom-21&amp;o=2&amp;p=8&amp;l=as1&amp;asins=1932266828&amp;fc1=000000&amp;IS2=1&amp;lt1=_blank&amp;lc1=0000ff&amp;bc1=000000&amp;bg1=ffffff&amp;f=ifr" style="width:120px;height:280px;" scrolling="no" marginwidth="0" marginheight="0" frameborder="0"></iframe><br />
Sorry about the lack of technical postings for a while, this last month or so has been rather hard for me. </p>

On 13th February I became suspicious that something wasn't quite right with Michelle, my partner for the last 17 or so years. My suspicions increased and I ended up setting up my laptop in the <a href="http://web.archive.org/web/20061230235928/http://www.thecanalbuilding.com/power.htm">equipment cupboard</a> as a <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sniffer">packet sniffer</a> running <a href="http://www.ethereal.com/">Ethereal</a>. I then connected to the laptop via a Remote Desktop Connection and controlled the sniffer from my main PC. A note to anyone reading this who isn't "a techie"; if you plan to use technology when cheating it's probably best to understand the technology involved better than the person that you're cheating on...]]>
        <![CDATA[<p><i>[Geek note: setting up the sniffer was actually considerably harder than I expected; mainly due to hardware issues; being able to monitor the network had never been a design constraint on the original installation or the subsequent equipment upgrades. I currently use a combined ADSL modem, router and WIFI access point and it proved impossible to sniff the WIFI network segment from the wired network and equally impossible to sniff the WIFI via the WIFI on my laptop. What's more the fact that I'd replaced my hubs with switches would also have caused me problems... In the end I pulled out my "old hardware" box and connected up my old ADSL modem to the incoming line, put an old 8 port hub between that and the combined router and WIFI box and turned off the ADSL modem in the combined box. All network traffic was now routed across the hub to the old ADSL modem. Plugging my laptop into the hub gave me the logging capabilities that I required... ]</i></p>

<p><iframe align="right" src="http://rcm-uk.amazon.co.uk/e/cm?t=ramcom-21&amp;o=2&amp;p=8&amp;l=as1&amp;asins=1597490202&amp;fc1=000000&amp;IS2=1&amp;lt1=_blank&amp;lc1=0000ff&amp;bc1=000000&amp;bg1=ffffff&amp;f=ifr" style="width:120px;height:280px;" scrolling="no" marginwidth="0" marginheight="0" frameborder="0"></iframe>
But I digress; the sniffer provided me with evidence that Michelle had been having an affair since mid January. I confronted her and we decided to try and see if we could "work it out" during our <a href="http://www.megeveski.com/archives/000273.html">ski trip to Colorado</a>. During the trip I decided that the relationship couldn't continue and so on our return she moved out. We're currently doing the separation of assets thing. We hope to be able to remain friends. Since I don't hate her, I figure that nobody else is allowed to...</p>

Right now I still find it quite difficult to concentrate enough to get any technical work done. I expect technical postings will resume once I get my head sorted out. Not sure when that will be. This morning has been the first time since we returned from Colorado that I've been able to sit down and code... So I guess things are getting better.]]>
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<entry>
    <title>Back from Meg&#232;ve</title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.lenholgate.com/blog/2006/02/back-from-megve.html" />
    <id>tag:www.socketframework.com,2006:/blog//12.684</id>

    <published>2006-02-05T15:11:59Z</published>
    <updated>2010-12-26T19:03:26Z</updated>

    <summary>I&apos;ve been skiing for the last couple of weeks and now I&apos;m back in London; normal service will resume soon....</summary>
    <author>
        <name>Len</name>
        
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        <![CDATA[I've been <a href="http://www.megeveski.com/archives/000253.html">skiing for the last couple of weeks</a> and now I'm back in London; normal service will resume soon.]]>
        
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<entry>
    <title>Online autism &quot;test&quot;</title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.lenholgate.com/blog/2006/01/online-autism-test.html" />
    <id>tag:www.socketframework.com,2006:/blog//12.670</id>

    <published>2006-01-10T23:31:58Z</published>
    <updated>2010-12-26T14:40:20Z</updated>

    <summary>I scored a 28, which is &quot;above average&quot;, so considerably nearer to Asperger&apos;s than it is considered to be &quot;normal&quot;. Which, to be honest, seems about right to me. If nothing else, it might make you think... Via Steve Pavlina&apos;s...</summary>
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        <name>Len</name>
        
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        <![CDATA[<p>I scored a 28, which is "above average", so considerably nearer to <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Asperger_Syndrome">Asperger's</a> than it is considered to be "normal". Which, to be honest, seems about right to me. If nothing else, it might make you think...</p>

Via <a href="http://www.stevepavlina.com/blog/2006/01/whats-your-autism-quotient/">Steve Pavlina's personal development blog</a>.]]>
        
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<entry>
    <title>Old friends</title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.lenholgate.com/blog/2005/10/old-friends.html" />
    <id>tag:www.socketframework.com,2005:/blog//12.611</id>

    <published>2005-10-25T22:30:01Z</published>
    <updated>2010-12-26T06:28:23Z</updated>

    <summary>I guess it&apos;s a combination of wine, Pink Floyd and the fact that this week the world wants to remind me that I&apos;m older than I feel. Thoughts drift back to the past. Times past and friends forgotten. A long...</summary>
    <author>
        <name>Len</name>
        
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        <![CDATA[<p>I guess it's a combination of wine, Pink Floyd and the fact that <a href="http://www.lenholgate.com/archives/000556.html">this week</a> the world wants to remind me that I'm older than I feel. Thoughts drift back to the past. Times past and friends forgotten.</p>

<p>A long time ago, in a galaxy far, far away I used to play an online game called <a href="http://www.mud.co.uk/richard/rhapr92.htm">MUD II</a>. This was back when you had to use your modem to dial another modem to get a connection to the world and there was no such thing as "the internet" unless you could connect to a university computer somewhere (like Essex Uni, perhaps). A time of Gopher and FTP and 300/300 and 12/75 modems. I met a lot of very good friends back then. I'm still in touch with lots of them, including Michelle (my other half), a chat room romance (a real woman? online??) back before anyone knew what "the internet" was...</p>

Floyd's "A Momenary Lapse of Reason" took me back to wet Sunday night "resets" in front of my Apricot Xen i386 with Procomm running, sitting in "the land" chatting to the other wizards, drinking beer. One of the guys I used to chat to a lot at the time was <a href="http://www.pantherhawaii.com/tale013j.html">Panther</a>, looks like he's still around <a href="http://www.lava.net/~panther/tale.html">in Hawaii</a>, he's been blogging since before we knew what blogging was... Shine on you crazy diamond...]]>
        
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<entry>
    <title>Cool</title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.lenholgate.com/blog/2005/09/cool.html" />
    <id>tag:www.socketframework.com,2005:/blog//12.579</id>

    <published>2005-09-19T11:17:16Z</published>
    <updated>2010-12-24T06:36:15Z</updated>

    <summary>Sometimes I think programmers find the wrong things &quot;cool&quot;... This cartoon kinda sums it up ;)...</summary>
    <author>
        <name>Len</name>
        
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        <![CDATA[Sometimes I think programmers find the wrong things "cool"... This <a href="http://www.bugbash.net/archives/comic/2005/09/parallel-universe-cool.html">cartoon</a> kinda sums it up ;)]]>
        
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